The 11 Funniest Unintentionally-Sexual Books Of All Time PICTURES.

I don’t know about you, but I remember running across some of these titles in the school library.  *shock*

For more examples, go directly to the article on Huffington Post.

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Reviews:

“Nikita has once again stunned me with another superb story of hers.This one starts out at a mundane book club meeting of soccer moms,mundane indeed,but there are currents of kinkiness and eroticism underlying even this supposedly mundane luncheon.Nikita does an excellent,daring job of unveiling these underlying currents. “

“Lyrically and descriptive told with an economy that belies the scope and breadth of the humiliation and submission we are allowed to glimpse.”

“Yummy stuff, Nikita! This is such a great line, “I bit my lip. Would she stop? No, thank God.” The story is delicious. The relationship between the leading lady and her domme is very hot. It’s very easy to picture the scenes and savor them. Thanks! “

“Wonderful! Great details, excellent development of both the characters and the story line. The emotive descriptions help the reader delve into the action and the mind of the players. Encore!”

“Your style is one that is refreshing,and leaves one to believe there is more to cum. Keep that wonderful way you have of takeing a fact and making it so that everyone can understand it.”

“The style you write in is an unpretentious stream of conscience that is humorous, while remaining clear and lucid. I liked it. “

In the past HBO used to be on the cutting edge of adult programs with such shows as Cathouse,  and r-rated comedy series.  Cathouse started as soft porn and graduated to more explicit sex scenes.  What fascinated me and probably thousands of viewers are the people, environment, and types of services requested.  There was some S&M, D/s, lessons in fellatio, licking pussy, couples, foursomes, orgies and more.    I followed the characters season after season.

Recently a few ladies in the adult services arena, surfaced in order to sell a book, create attention and notoriety for publicity, and make money, of course.  Today, the Daily Beast posted an article,  Vegas’ Mystery Sex Blog by Richard Abowitz, written by about a Nevada prostitute, her blog, The Las Vegas Courtesan, and the popularity of her tweets.  Her active Twitter, chronicles details of her ‘mundane’ life as a prostitute in Vegas, attracted offers from producers to brand-name media outlets for interviews.  She calls herself Cali.

My Afternoon with a Dominatrix – Page 1 – The Daily Beast by David Goodwillie

As a writer and someone whose friends include dominatrices, this review of Whip Smart by Melissa Febos, piqued my interest and I’m going to buy the book because it sounds like a good read.

“I always savored the moment I told someone I was a dominatrix,” she explains. ” ~ Melissa Febos

However, something about this review irked me, maybe it was the reviewer’s choice of words, like ‘depravity,’

Did I enjoy hurting people? Sometimes. But not simply for the sake of their physical pain. I couldn’t fathom hurting someone who didn’t want it, but how many people get to experience the moral loophole of hurting someone who wants to be hurt?…As I crouched on that bathroom floor, held that man’s head beneath the water, I experienced a kind of transcendence. It was that utter alienation from self, a loosening of the glue that made my reality whole. It felt both horrific and triumphant. ~ Melissa Febos

Here’s what the reviewer said:

The raw descriptions of depravity can be astonishing—in the session detailed above, held in one of the dungeon’s “medical rooms” (complete with “examination tables, mirrored walls…proctoscopes and stethoscopes, rolling wheels with spikes and pincers, clamps, syringes, thermometers, tongue depressors…”),

To those who don’t understand the power dynamics in bdsm scenes, what happens during the course of one may sound depraved, perhaps even envisioning a dominatrix brutalizing a client then kicking him out after taking his money.   *shakes head* It’s NOT so.  It’s called consensual power exchange.

Is it a good review?  Yes and there are MORE good reviews.

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Reviews:

“Nikita has once again stunned me with another superb story of hers.This one starts out at a mundane book club meeting of soccer moms,mundane indeed,but there are currents of kinkiness and eroticism underlying even this supposedly mundane luncheon.Nikita does an excellent,daring job of unveiling these underlying currents. “

“Lyrically and descriptive told with an economy that belies the scope and breadth of the humiliation and submission we are allowed to glimpse.”

“Yummy stuff, Nikita! This is such a great line, “I bit my lip. Would she stop? No, thank God.” The story is delicious. The relationship between the leading lady and her domme is very hot. It’s very easy to picture the scenes and savor them. Thanks! “

“Wonderful! Great details, excellent development of both the characters and the story line. The emotive descriptions help the reader delve into the action and the mind of the players. Encore!”

“Your style is one that is refreshing,and leaves one to believe there is more to cum. Keep that wonderful way you have of takeing a fact and making it so that everyone can understand it.”

“The style you write in is an unpretentious stream of conscience that is humorous, while remaining clear and lucid. I liked it. “

Lolita Wolf: The Kinky Lover  New York Characters in The New York Times.

Follow Lolita, America’s kinky every-woman, to her website, Lolita Wolf’s Predictions & Predilections. It’s sleek, has  book reviews and recommendations,  list of Divas, pictures, and, well, I want to stay and read everything.

A Little “Strange Magic”  There is a renaissance of this type of music  all over Europe and the US.  The original artists are coming out of the woodwork, err, retirement. Dust off your Pink Floyd, (and similar bands) albums and revisit those crazy times. By the way, if you have any of those vinyls, dig them out of the attic, they’re valuable.

Here is the official site of

IGRA STAKLENIH PERLI The Glass Beads Game

band name inspired by DER GLASSPERLENSPIELE  Hermann Hesse’s book

Plugging V  – Ever know a woman who is amazingly talented, earthy, intelligent, and deep as the sea?  That’s Verijaa.  She’s a Domme, a sadist, and a mean toy maker.

I want you to check out her toys.  She makes them herself, floggers, whips, vampire gloves, drumming bundles and more.   While you are there, check out her dungeon.

Over a year ago, I purchased a custom-made cat-o-nines from Verijaa.  She made them with butter soft purple leather.  The falls are braided and the knotted ends are like split tongues.

The workmanship is superb and I’ve gotten lots of compliments on it.  This particular flogger throws medium heavy and is slightly thuddy.  If it’s swung so that the tips just brush the skin, it gets more of a reaction.  Know what I mean?

She also made a handsome black and red quirt that she donated to the MDS football pool.

So if you are looking for something special and custom-made, contact Verijaa@verijaa.com

I feel very strongly about of the lack of information about switches.  I’ve been very vocal on several bdsm boards about discrimination, misinformation, and myths clouding our reputations as play partners.  My goal was to illuminate, demystify, and provoke dialogue.

The presentation was geared to dominants and submissives.  What a surprise.  With the exception of two people, the attendees were switches.  <Insert broad grin> It was a curve ball, but a pleasant one.  As I began the session literally straddling an invisible line, each face turned into expressions of recognition.   It was as if finally, we were on the same page but on different paragraphs.

ALL the attendees added their two cents worth and the time flew by.  We shared experiences and talked about solutions.   We became a small self contained support group.  I felt that all of us walked away with food for thought and discussion.   You can find my notes here:  Switches’ Dilemma

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Domina Dea was a guest on  This Week In Kink‘s, podcast #9, along with Boss Bondage, member the West Coast Assholes.  You’ll have to listen to the interview to hear about the West Coast Assholes.

The podcast was produced by Tonya. She invited the guests, prepared the questions, and supplied sources for the topics.  She and John Baku engaged Domina Dea and Boss in questions submitted by their audience.  The discussions were informative, intelligent, candid, and peppered with lively repartee.

I felt like a fly on the wall listening in on an intimate conversation between 4 people who were sitting in a lounge sipping their poison comfortably chatting away.

As I told Domina Dea, she was interesting, very intelligent, and her voice was sexy as hell. She should have her own show period.  Seriously.  But I am biased.   ‘-)