This was my response to a question on switching roles during a scene on MyDungeonSpace.
Your question infers there might be an imbalance in the power dynamics within the person switching. That is something to consider. In my opinion, staying in one role in a play session allows for coping with only one set of feelings. Having been in the unique position of being on both sides of the paddle, I found it less confusing to give up one side in order to enjoy the other and prefer doing that as a matter-of-course.
Having observed switches topping and bottoming in a short time-frame, say within the same scene, I concluded it was not easy for them to switch roles. Partly because once they switched from top to bottom, they were perceived as bottoms beyond play and beyond the scene. Secondly, there was an internal struggle on whether to give in to that desire or hold back. More often than not, the dominant type switches remained in control of themselves while submitting. i.e. not fully submitting.
Announcing my bitch, pink twitch’s latest work. It’s hot and sweet and semi-confessional from the mind of a man trying to come to terms with submission, his own need for submission. He returns to his earliest memories of being a teenage boy caught masturbating while a make shift spreader bar is attached to his ankles.
From conception, it sparkles with creativity and is compelling in it’s execution; the piece is amazing. It speaks volumes on so many levels. It’s like a good movie. Each time I discover more, want to know more, and ponder on the revelations.
I love dicking with My pink bitch. It’s especially fun when he’s not expecting it. His face is passive, almost expression-less when in My presence. He’s in a floaty state, My space. So I dick him. *insert big smile*
Your forfeit is due. I want you to take a couple of days to perform the task. Why you ask? Pink twitches don’t ask their Mistresses why! They say “Yes Ma’am! With pleasure Ma’am!” Then they retreat with their pink tails between their legs and wait quietly and attentively to the side. Right? RIGHT!
My bitch, pink twitch paid a forfeit on my behalf for the weekly football pool on MDS. After finding the posted forfeit a bit ‘mild’ I had to brand it mine, so pink had to do the “geisha” thing and wrote about it, pinkture included.
Last night, I gave my bitch pink twitch a task to perform . It is quite challenging. *big smile* I just HAD to see his face as he read it aloud for me.
Title: Bitch work for tomorrow
pink, you have two days to complete this task.
Use all the words/phrases on this list in your conversations with people and write them on your body. You may also says them to no one in particular, but make sure you are heard. Write a report. Extra points if you continue the conversation with someone based on the words/phrases. ‘-D *watches the worm squirm*
1. pantyhose
2. fetish
3. slut or whore extra points if you use both
4. corset
5. Mistress, in the femdom sense.
Things you can do to enhance the task you may include are wearing pantyhose and “play” when possible while on task.
After the task, masturbate to orgasm and THEN write or record the report. Send it immediately.
