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Over at MyDungeonSpace, we see posts and blogs from newbie subs who want to know how to protect themselves when seeking out a Dominant. Often times, they are exposed to D/s online.
Announcing my bitch, pink twitch’s latest work. It’s hot and sweet and semi-confessional from the mind of a man trying to come to terms with submission, his own need for submission. He returns to his earliest memories of being a teenage boy caught masturbating while a make shift spreader bar is attached to his ankles.
From conception, it sparkles with creativity and is compelling in it’s execution; the piece is amazing. It speaks volumes on so many levels. It’s like a good movie. Each time I discover more, want to know more, and ponder on the revelations.
In the past HBO used to be on the cutting edge of adult programs with such shows as Cathouse, and r-rated comedy series. Cathouse started as soft porn and graduated to more explicit sex scenes. What fascinated me and probably thousands of viewers are the people, environment, and types of services requested. There was some S&M, D/s, lessons in fellatio, licking pussy, couples, foursomes, orgies and more. I followed the characters season after season.
Recently a few ladies in the adult services arena, surfaced in order to sell a book, create attention and notoriety for publicity, and make money, of course. Today, the Daily Beast posted an article, Vegas’ Mystery Sex Blog by Richard Abowitz, written by about a Nevada prostitute, her blog, The Las Vegas Courtesan, and the popularity of her tweets. Her active Twitter, chronicles details of her ‘mundane’ life as a prostitute in Vegas, attracted offers from producers to brand-name media outlets for interviews. She calls herself Cali.
Alright already . . . So You’re gay. You wanna medal?
So, my brother is gay, right? Just about everyone has a gay relative, friend, neighbor, and so on, and on, and on. I’m an avowed pansexual. No one has to tell me how difficult life is for gay people, trans, bisexuals, and members of alternative lifestyles, especially in terms of acceptance.
He came out to my family when he was in high school in a very “in your face, accept it, I like boys, bears, and. . . “‘ It continued for about 15 years. Yes 15! So alright already. So one gives a shit.
The only thing that bugs me and my other brother(s) is that he continues to bang the drum when we are together at family functions, most of it is directed at our kids. It’s not like they live in a bubble. They ALL know he’s gay . . . AND they don’t give a shit.
We’ve talked to him about why behaves that way. So what’s the problem? Does EVERYONE need to kiss the ring? Why is your sexual preference our business? What’s up with that?
Yanno what? Dead phone.
FYI, you don’t KNOW all the Gay Hanky Codes. Maybe you should bone up.
As a writer and someone whose friends include dominatrices, this review of Whip Smart by Melissa Febos, piqued my interest and I’m going to buy the book because it sounds like a good read.
“I always savored the moment I told someone I was a dominatrix,” she explains. ” ~ Melissa Febos
However, something about this review irked me, maybe it was the reviewer’s choice of words, like ‘depravity,’
Did I enjoy hurting people? Sometimes. But not simply for the sake of their physical pain. I couldn’t fathom hurting someone who didn’t want it, but how many people get to experience the moral loophole of hurting someone who wants to be hurt?…As I crouched on that bathroom floor, held that man’s head beneath the water, I experienced a kind of transcendence. It was that utter alienation from self, a loosening of the glue that made my reality whole. It felt both horrific and triumphant. ~ Melissa Febos
Here’s what the reviewer said:
The raw descriptions of depravity can be astonishing—in the session detailed above, held in one of the dungeon’s “medical rooms” (complete with “examination tables, mirrored walls…proctoscopes and stethoscopes, rolling wheels with spikes and pincers, clamps, syringes, thermometers, tongue depressors…”),
To those who don’t understand the power dynamics in bdsm scenes, what happens during the course of one may sound depraved, perhaps even envisioning a dominatrix brutalizing a client then kicking him out after taking his money. *shakes head* It’s NOT so. It’s called consensual power exchange.
Is it a good review? Yes and there are MORE good reviews.
Imagine a tea party with 4 beautiful ladies on a sunny afternoon enjoying each others company and sharing tawdry tidbits. There’s a knock on the door and it’s the shoe slut.
